Feebee - CD6When people say that relaxing can help TTC (and I mean people who know what they're talking about), do they mean that it helps if you stop planning and thinking about TTC and babies (impossible), or that you should stop stressing about temps, charts and dates?
I have developed a slightly defeatist attitude at this stage, and am no longer expecting to be successful every time. As a result I have completely forgotten to take my temps for the last 2 mornings, and am not bothered in the slightest about the fact that my OPKs have not yet arrived from saveontests. I think I'll have DH on a rota of every 2nd night this cycle, as opposed to the every single night just in case we miss something drill the poor lad has had to endure for the last six months. Do I sound relaxed???
Yep, the babydust days are just a distant memory - I have now entered the zone of the long-term TTCer.