Feebee - CD8After months of feeling confident I wouldn't need it, I finally bought Taking Charge of Your Fertililty by Toni Weschler. I skulked into Waterstones at lunchtime and sulked as soon as I saw the pregnancy section. Much like I sulked in Boots at the weekend, when I had to buy my basal body thermometer.
I asked my GP whether or not we should be trying this month, and she said we might as well as my LP varies in length. She also said that at my age (35) we probably wouldn't want to waste a month. She is right. However, a fellow TTC-er, who has also suffered from a LP defect, advised me to wait until it's sorted out, to save myself the heartache of another m/c or chemical pregancy. She is also right.
I have made a decision to sit on the fence. We will have unprotected sex this month, but I will not force DH to perform at certain times, as decided by soul-destroying little sticks (I hate them all) dipped in pots of pee. I will still have to co-operate with the sticks (b*****ds) in order to date O, but they will not be the boss of me this month!!! We will go back to the old-fashioned way of BDing - for fun, when we feel like it!!!!!
Disclaimer: I may change my mind about this, but for now I'm just going to chill out and enjoy the weekend without any TTC pressure.