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Tuesday, November 13, 2007

11w5d

Tomorrow is 11w5d. It is the day that last year's baby died. For no reason.

I have been wondering what the pro-life movement (or to call a spade a spade, the anti-abortion movement) makes of people like me. I continue to create embryos, despite the fact that they are almost certain to die. It is not my intention to kill them, but if I know that my body has a predisposition to kill babies, then does that make me somewhat compliant in their deaths?

Obviously this is not a personal view. Nor is the idea that IVF destroys life. IVF doesn't destroy life, it creates it. It creates a life that would not have existed if it wasn't for IVF. So I suppose in the same vein, I am desperately trying to create life whilst doing everything in my power not to let my biological flaws get in the way.

While we're on the subject, I don't believe that life begins at conception. Viable life begins at implantation - a fertilised egg only has about a 25% chance of implanting in the uterine lining, so how can it be seen as anything other than potential life? For all those who want to save "leftover embryos" (if only - how many of us are lucky enough to have anything to freeze???), how do you propose giving each and every one of them life when medical science can only give a 25% chance of success to couples desperate for a child?

Next scan is on Monday. Finding it hard to believe I will ever get that far.

12 Comments:

At 7:26 PM, Anonymous Artblog said...

Crossing my fingers for the scan, hope all is fine!

HUGS

 
At 11:10 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

11weeks 5 days.... brilliant Feebee. Sarah x

 
At 1:10 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

F.. delighted you are this far.. fingers crossed for the scan.Keep strong..

Gill xx

 
At 7:18 PM, Blogger truculent.girl said...

I don't think "those" type of people are very pro-ivf either - for many of the reasons you outline. I think a lot of them are the 'just adopters' as well. How's that for a fine generalization?

Good luck w/ the scan.

 
At 10:48 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

I think maybe the best way to think about it is that 'those' type of people are not 'your' people. (I have never understood how someone can get so worked up about a decision that is none of their business)...
Fingers, toes, and everything else crossed for a good weekend & a positive scan on monday.
Ex

 
At 10:59 AM, Anonymous adie said...

Just to say I was thinking about you yesterday and hope you got passed another milestone... and will be thinking of you again on Monday.
Adie X

 
At 12:37 PM, Anonymous treelo said...

Wow, that makes it 12 weeks and a day today, oh I am so so happy for you honey! I have fingers toes and everything crossed for you on Monday. Looking forward to hearing about baby waving at you...

 
At 3:10 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

It is indeed a topic that will always be discussed and never agreed upon. What do you say to someone who decided to have an abortion in her early 20's after a one night stand with a stranger, then goes on to suffer 5 miscarriages .............
You would think this person would regret that decision if she knew that 10 years later she would would have such problems. It is a sad story and it is my story and no I don't regret my decision as it was MY decision.

 
At 9:15 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

feebee,thinking of you and sending you and your baby lots of good wishes.

 
At 9:32 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

Feebee - good luck for today...hope that little bean gives his/her mum and dad loads of somersaults!!!

Big hugs,

Mia01101

 
At 9:48 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

Feebee,
Thinking of you today and keeping everything crossed for you and babs.
Jane xx

 
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